How to talk from the heart?

The heart does not know the reasons for his logic - Blaise Pascal.

- More words to the greatest feelings

If you do not find it difficult to express their feelings of love and fear and anger you have, there remain several important points constitute a great challenge in the ratio you, and are the following:

1 - tell the poignant and meaningful sentences.

2 - to apologize for any mistake you've done, and in all sincerity, and the apology comes from the heart.

3 - expression of thanks and appreciation and respect.

4 - provide encouragement and sincere assistance to others.

5 - Send the appropriate heartfelt congratulations to others.

6 - service request or the help of others, and give thanks from the heart for this service.

7 - extend invitations to others, and these calls are honest, and heartfelt.

8 - and provide convincing point of view in all sincerity and devotion.

9 - sympathy and sincere is fake, or sympathy with the most to convince others.

10 - stay in constant contact with others.

- How to speak from the heart with your kids

There are proper ways in which you can offer advice to your children, and that by talking to them about things academic, emotional and sensitive matters, and taking into account, by talking with the child,show your affection and feelings sincere direction of your children, and most important to be talking with your child it comes from the heart, and that the child feels that there is a family and parents, they are doing to protect and sponsorship form properly, and that takes into account the parents by talking with the children, some matters relating to the following points:

1 - in the case show anger.

2 - Show interest in the case.

3 - to talk about the case of death.

4 - to talk about the case of divorce.

5 - in the case of talking about emotions

6 - in the case of talking about alcohol and drugs.

7 - in the case of talking about values and ethics.

8 - in the case of talking about sex.

* Discovered through your heart

Be Only you, do not think too much, just say anything that comes to mind, does not monitor yourself, but let the feelings are not your guide, and when the time comes will books or help words, that our world is filled in bad advice, and all opinions are based on the belief, that in our societies and our cultures and appreciate the automatic spontaneity and simplicity, more than anything else, and we recognize that controversy in spontaneous expression, is a form the most direct communication, and that the most direct communication is the most honest necessary.

As a result to the previous talk, we're here to talk equate mindless and sincere talk, and if we take this to the next step, and that is the most honest talk is of necessity in the modern best, and we should then be concluded that in the modern best, is the least modern thinking, and in fact, the less thinking about what you will say the words, this was a matter best.

The language also tells us the linguistics and philosophy and sociology and psychology, is what in the end is characterized by the man from the other objects in the animal kingdom, and language is the means by which to emphasizeWe can in the intervention is the expression of most of our needs, and in the wider meaning of vlanguage is that we can in the intervention is to meet those needs, and language and in no way to look at it in a centralized everything we want in its composition and we wish, and do you have to be willing to repudiate such a degree in the language of responsibility and managed through our conversation? .

No need to waste time in answering this question, it is clear that this question is a question mannered, but the basic point is sincere in language, and language and actors stemming from the heart, and is the language that soundly thought does not require, and think about the words and vocabulary, but whenever a deeper and broader imagination think of anything we say, here it can be more honest and effective and more sense, and it comes from the heart, and honest words.

* Not any another word

Ended a psychologist (Albert Mehrabian) in 1971, a study on the nature of persuasion, and have found that when the listeners, in the mentality of the trial to the emotional content in an interview with the speaker, they give weight the larger the speaker facial expressions and movements, no body language, and has been (Albert) unable to determine this weight, the equivalent of 55%, that is, it was found that 55% of the power of persuasion on the speaker, and the speaker dependent effect the overtones visible, not verbal overtones.

And this strong conclusion, that makes only 45% of the effectiveness of modern, come through words? , But not in fact, I've found (Albert) that the most important factors in determining the strength of persuasion by talking, And that comes second only to the visual nods, it is the verbal characteristics and not words, but in the tone of voice and pitch performance and versatility, and this combined accounted for 38% of the effectiveness of speaker, and a total of 93% of the effectiveness of the talk, but the words themselves do not constitute more than 7% of the effectiveness of modern.

- body language

The lesson of the study (Albert Mehrabian), is that anyone wants to talk from the heart, and convey the important things in an honest and compelling way, you should always go to the non-verbal aspects of talk verbal, which are movements and expressions and tone of voice, and in a blind eye to the words used, or words is used, and are not interest in body language.

And speaking (Faast) about our behavior encased in a mask, and is the face that we offer to the outside world, and which is rarely true we send out, and in fact is to allow our face in the expression of the truth of what we feel, it is improper, and is not even a flagrant and antisocial, and we adapt from a very early age to put a mask on our feelings, through the face of certain expressions, and certain other physical gestures, and as a result, we have learned the language of the body of a false employment, and is the language most often conceal more than they reveal him our hearts, and explained (Faast) that the greatest motivation to this behavior, is to defend personal space,However, the problem is that such a defense is not only unnecessary in most cases, It is derived from the biological and cultural evolution of our, and even more possible that this behavior is destructive in all what you mean by the word of meaning, and this behavior makes us people is honest, and scared, and more elusive, and more flatter, and more hypocrisy, and more nervous, or even more betrayal, and all this in the end blocked by heart, and contrary to the visible form and Subliminal, all what we are saying in the form of verbal and thoughtful.

* Straight Talk

The more human words and thread depth is the simplest words, and the need to work hard and thinking, in order to achieve this level of simplicity actors, and may understand this talk architect (Ludwig MaysVander Rohe) this speech, when he summed up the aesthetic philosophy in the famous phrase, "Less is more", but then thinking about one of the greatest high-end in terms of human thought, and that has been produced so far, And is an expression of (Einstein) on the equivalence of mass and energy, and is an expression of the basis of truth itself, and is composed of three letters, it is (E = mc2), this means that energy is equal to hit the block holds the speed of light squared, this equation is not just typing a few characters, but the real work was in all the preparations, in the direction of knowing what he wants to say? , ThenIn the concentration of that information in the best formula directly, that considerable work to speak from the heart, begins before any word or before you type any word pronunciation.

* Convert opportunity to apologize

Say you are sorry, do you remember your mother and she says to you? , And do you remember how much was the era of harsh words? , And many of us do not find it easy, and even when we become adults, in fact, that the risk behaviors adults at higher risk of the actions of the boys or teenagers, for it becomes more difficult and more painful embarrassment and apology, and no one likes to do at the wrong reform, but we all know that it necessary sometimes, and sometimes located mistakes and sometimes make mistakes, and in the business world are not the problems and failures and disappointments limited things, and like this will never become, but may remove apology effective these disasters, and prevent these disasters to real opportunities, in order to create a positive relationship with your customers, and your business does not matter here, and you do not shop just a commodity, but also shopping yourself, your company and shopping, and if a specific service failed in your company, still have the opportunity to market yourself and marketing your company, by sending a message confirming that you will fix things, and as you can in the reform process of converting error to build a positive relationship.

* Sincere appreciation and gratitude

No expression of thanks just did shows kindness and civility, it is a means of strengthening the positive reaction, and build a cohesive organization, and behavioral psychologists have always known, that praise and thanks are messages more effective in strengthening the desired reaction, rather than the use of punishment and the threat of it, and express messages of thanks is a positive tool strong support in this matter.

* Encouragement and motivation

All agree trainers and supervisors and managers, the key to effective leadership is the ability to motivate others, in order to achieve the best, but this compatibility will invalidate the speed, when you search on how to the achievement of an important stimulus, and the fact that few of us are comfortable to open conversations when things are going smoothly, or in order to provide meaningful and constructive criticism when things are not going well, and we find ourselves falling in generalizations and trivial observations, and cry in the way and the power of sport coach at a high school or a football stadium.

And we fail to be more accurate, since most of the stimulus contacts go in a vacuum, and not be driven from the heart, and often do not refer to specific circumstances, do you want to submit a memorandum or letter of Catalyst and influential? ,so in depth what is happening now, and try to sail in the existing situation, and talked about the real problem, or a substantial opportunity, or current Nasr, spoke about something specific and closely related in a direct form in listeners you.